With this many lj friends, I may soon have to start using the "Default View" feature.
Many of the people I know have an "eros" filter. Sometimes I've thought about setting such a thing up, but I don't know how comfortable I would be actually posting something that would need it. Not really for my own sake, but for the privacy and propriety of the other people such posts would be about. So far the "notfamily" filter seems to suffice.